FACE IT.

'Had i know about his illness, i would've treat him better...'

This came out from a bloke who became a carer for his dad after being diagnosed with dementia. did he choose to feel that way? i mean to feel guilty and upset about himself for not being able to tolerate the old man, just because he didnt know? definitely not. we're human, we have feelings, we have emotion. It's a matter of conscience how we want our life to be and how we want our relationship to be. To despair on this would not change the past. be very careful on regrets.

Later to watch the video of how heart-wrenching it could be to see your loved ones deteriorates in front of your eyes and for someone whom her mother could not recognise her anymore..

'Not being able to call my mum, mum is the hardest thing to do...'

it's the same thing. you'll never know how much time you actually have.

"i could never forgive myself for doing that..'

Life does not come twice, so does chance.