*ListeN!*

...our last usrah discussed about Islam and nasihat. yelah, org slalu ckp manusia nih mudah terlupa thats why kena selalu diingatkan...

...why do we bother giving some words to the other ppl? are we are good enough to tell them wats right n wats wrong? heh, do we need to go thru the same pain and trouble before saying those 'idealistic' thoughts??...

...bagi aku advice is more than just a reminder...its actually a bonding between two ppl, another way to show that we care and mind about their problem..we are not there to tell them wat to do or give some solutions to their problem, but more to listen and validate their worries..n maybe to an extent try to rationalise things with them..ppl cant think straight at that time and having another person to be by their side is as good as having a bar of choc :p

...what if our real experience is actually near zero? never or almost never? are we the right ones to talk to? then i reckon its a matter of trust and sincerity. trust given by the person to share their problem and sincerity showed by the other parties. yes its easier said that done, so what?? doesnt mean that if we've never been thru that phase of life, we should be considered as ignorant and clueless..well,the senses of look, listen, touch.. they can also teach us sumthing rite?

...i dont normally share my problem with others...bottled up everything and let it rot *shrug* maybe coz i dont feel comfortable talking about myself, and hate to think that i might sound like a sympathy-seeker..used to tell a few but often ended up feeling useless and dismissed.. n now i dont easily trust ppl.. and the only few ppl that i confide my secrets keep on shrinking in number...i dont expect much, just lend ur ears for a while and keep the stories to urselves..safe and sound ;)

...ppl, the sympathy-seeker thingy is maybe my other negative-paranoid thought..so it is never applied to u :p